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Introversion confirmed Sunday, 21 Jan 2007

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Why is it the very few guys I’ve met this year that I would have liked to have asked out for a drink already have partners or seeing somebody? To be fair I didn’t come across them looking for people to go out with, but then again most of the people I know haven’t intentionally sought the person they are currently with.

So this week started off rather boring like every other, however I had the fortune of escaping to Newcastle for two days to go to a confernce. The conference was a bit crap as it was supposed to facilitate networking, which didn’t really happen, I only got to speak to a few people who I didn’t already know, one of which happened to be a rather cute boy (and hence the question to start). The enforced social event was at some interactive biology museum, which was rather crap although myself and the cute boy did master the Japanese dancing arcade games, aided by the some of the worst red wine I’ve ever drunk (although not the worst).

The second day of the conference involved doing a Myers-Briggs Type Indicator test: and apparently I’m an INTJ. Which confirms the introversion, though I reckon its reducing well I’m in more situations that require me to not be introverted. Apparently it means I’m highly analytical, and open-minded and suspicious of theories based on poor research – like all psychometric tests it tells me nothing new. I actually came out as an INTP on the scorecard but the validation session convinced me that I’m INTJ, although I think I’m very borderline, and as the fembot identi-kit psychology bimbos (who’ve probably only just graduated themselves) said its only your preferred type, and I’m certainly becoming more J even if I’m still rather flexible.

Anyways enough of the rubbish pyschometrics, followed by lunch which closed the conference, and gave me the chance to swap (work) contact details with the cute boy. Then headed to the train with my two colleagues, somehow Yasmine ended up on the train before the one we planned to get. Anyways we got on the train and it was going a bit slow, but because of the wind they had put speed limits on the line. However the one who got the train text to ask if our train was terminating at York. Evenutally we were told that we would be held at York due to severe delays, a message that eventually turned into “We advise against all travel, if possible please return to your originating station”. Well that’s what I was trying to do.

So we decided to abandon the return to London and find somewhere to stay in York, and discovered that Yasmine had caught the train with cute boy and his colleagues. So while Liz went to visit her friend in York and cute boy’s colleagues went off to visit somebody else, Yasmine, me and cute boy strolled around York and found a very nice bar/gastropub: 1331 which did very good food in very good portions and gave us a free bottle of wine. Well after a night of unintentional flirting we mosied back to the hotel where Yasmine decided to go to bed and I went back to cute boys’s room to watch The Trial of Tony Blair. Nothing happened, but it certainly wouldn’t have been unwelcome, and I actually think something might have had I stayed.

Friday started with breakfast, at which I swapped mobile numbers with cute boy, and then travelling. Luckily we managed to get seats that the reserved traveller had abandoned, which was lucky as when we pulled into Doncaster the platform was packed and the train suddenly filled up. Conversation on the train went all over the place but did result in the disclosue that he was seeing somebody (but seemed like he wasn’t happy to admit it), however it did also result in the decision to have lunch sometime.

So while the conference was crap, the adventure of getting stopped in York and the fun of spending it in the company of a cute boy means that it has been a rather enjoyable week.

2007 definitely seems to be starting better than 2006 did.

And so that was 2006 Tuesday, 09 Jan 2007

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I’ve been meaning to post a bit of a 2006 review for a while. Not that there’s that much to review.

In February I moved into a new flat, where I currently am, with he who used to be a salesman, tried to escape and still is a salesman despite his bitter bitter hatred for it, particularly given his academic/professional background.  In March I started this blog and had a semi-breakdown  due to work pressure having worked almost non-stop since August. Not much happened in April or May except for visiting the Albers & Moholoy-Nagy exhibition at Tate Modern. In June I enjoyed the first proper sunny weekend of the year in Greenwich Park, and went on holiday to Barcelona. Nothing much happened in July at all, no posts even, except that I continued to get pissed off with the job (though long picnic lunches in the park eased that pain) and I started the long hard search for alternative employment. August was a month of resolutions: principally to find a new job, and to do a masters/phd, and I went for an arty walk through East London. September was also a bit quiet, but I had sent off a few job applications. Things got better in October, with a job interview, had a nightmare of a time with nightbuses, the discovery of a good cookie recipe and a job offer. November invovled two weeks off before I quit my job in which I visited my sister in Norwich and friends in Nottingham. While December rounded off both the year and I finished my old job and started my new one.

So 2006 was mainly a year of frustration: principally work orientated, but partly man related (more the continued frustration of not having one – not that I really worked on getting one).

Well here’s hoping 2007 is a better year. And so far so good.

Christmas approaches Sunday, 17 Dec 2006

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It’s that time of year again, switch on ‘pre-programmed enjoyment sequence X’ for however long it takes to pass through the wonderful emotional joy that is the festive season.

Christmas presentsFor some reason it’s not seemed like Christmas is at all approaching, though to spare me the obvious evil that Thursday night shopping this week or even shopping next weekend I decided yesterday to go and buy all my shopping. Although I had to go again today to get two more presents, but yesterday I did manage to buy almost all my presents within two and a half hours including wrapping materials and avoiding the majority of London crowds. I have reaffirmed my love of Fopp. And as you can see I’ve spent today wrapping them, I’d forgotten how much I enjoyed wrapping – maybe I should open a shop that sells cookies, apple tart, chocolate torte, and offers a deluxe present wrapping service.

Walking along the streets of London at this time (and no doubt many other towns of this fair land) of year the smell of roasting chestnuts whafts about, and it’s a really beautiful smell which makes me feel all wintery. But I started to think that you don’t get chestnut roasters in summer – so where do they go? Is there a chestnut roasting equipment storage area/graveyard, or do they convert into those mobile hotdog/burger people that stand outside clubs??

Talking of food I got very disturbed today when buying my paper – creme eggs are already on sale!! It’s not even Christmas, some people probably haven’t even bought all their presents yet!

Oh well off to bed where I shall dream of present wrapping, roast chestnuts and having nightmares about three months of easter commericalism.

MyFirstJob™ Monday, 04 Dec 2006

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So I’ve finally left MyFirstJob™, which gainfully employed me for 15 or so months, of which 14 have been spent working as a social researcher for an inner London local authority. It’s been an ‘interesting’ year to say the least – its certainly had its good times, but there’s been an awful lot of bad times (usually soothed by consumption of copious ammounts of alcohol). I’ve had a number of good opportunities (and to some extent have actually been very lucky) but I also feel like I’ve not been treated very well and that my previous job really didn’t provide any opportunities for development (both in career terms but also in skills/professional terms).

And so without any more cathartic bitching (in the blogosphere about my last job that is, for I am naturally a bitch to some degree!) tomorrow I start my new job as a sparkly social researcher proper.

How you know you loved the 90s Friday, 24 Nov 2006

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Got a rather lovely email forwarded to me today, I usually hate forwards specifically if they say you must pass this on or else your eyes will fall out or something to the effect of that, but this one had a nice ending that said: “You loved the 90’s!! Pass this on and add on anymore that u remember!! Big up the 90’s!! If you don’t pass this on…….fair enough…. it’s a free country “.

Anyways so here’s the email (oh and if you hadn’t already guessed then its a list of all the great things about the 1990s):

How you know you experienced the 90’s:

  1. 10p Mr Frosty Ice Pops on long summer days!
  2. Gordon the Gopher!
  3. You could do or tried to do the Prodigy step. ‘You’re no good 4 me….’
  4. You owned or longed for an Adidas three stripe tracksuit
  5. You owned a compilation tape with TOP TUNES such as “Mr Vain”, “What is love” and “Rhythm is a dancer” and ‘How Bizarre,How Bizarre”
  6. Girls thought Blue Mascara was cool!
  7. Girls actually fancied Garry Barlow more than Robbie Williams 
  8. The Racoons! (nuff said)
  9. You owned a pair of Nike Air Max, and wore them to death
  10. Mr Motivator (What ever happened to him?)
  11. Running on the spot dancing!
  12. You wore leggings/cycling shorts with long t-shirts 
  13. You owned a Bennetton, NafNaf, sweater shop jumper or waistcoat
  14. Girls owned scrunchies in an array of colours and tacky headbands with their names written on in thick glitter
  15. You bought Smash Hits for the song lyrics and the immense amount of stickers that you would stick everywhere!
  16. You had a pen pal
  17. You could only watch the Simpson’s on sky
  18. On a Saturday afternoon you watched Baywatch Catchphrase, Gladiators,Generation Game, Noels House Party and then Casualty
  19. You taped the Pepsi Chartshow on radio one and tired in vain to pause the tape before the annoying guy talked and ruined the whole thing. 
  20. Cans of Coke were 25p
  21. 10p Space Raiders Crisps
  22. A grey Fruit of the Loom jumper was a must have
  23. Sharkie & George were the crimebusters of the sea
  24. Puffa jackets
  25. You used the line “it’s a free country” every day 
  26. The Sky Sports Blimp!
  27. Impulse body spray for girls
  28. Hooch Alcoholic Lemonade (where’s it gone?!)
  29. ‘Don’t forget your toothbrush’, ‘TFI’ and Big Breakfast with Chris Evans
  30. You had at least one troll 
  31. You know the dance to Macarena and Saturday Night. You also tried to scat like Scatman John! Bi bat ba ba da bo…
  32. You watched Baywatch and longed for the day that Eddie & Sharni got together!
  33. You watched Byker Grove ‘ha ha ha whatcha laughin at!’ (the themesong ending), and saw PJ get shot in the eye with a paintball! 
  34. PJ and Duncan not Ant and Dec! Dodgy Pop Not Dodgy Presenting!
  35. Shellsuits & bumbags!
  36. You longed to live in Beverley Hills 90210
  37. Home and Away was a prime time ITV programe watched by millions 
  38. You owned a Spice Girls album
  39. Fruit salads and black jacks!
  40. Strike it lucky on a sunday night with Michael Barrymore when he was straight & married
  41. Chain letters
  42. You had fake ID
  43. You remember Todd Landers in Neighbours
  44. You religiously watched Saved by the Bell on a Saturday morning!
  45. Live and Kicking on a saturday morning, not Steve (please just shut up) Jones on T4
  46. Edd the Duck and Andi Peters in the Broom Cupboard
  47. You watched episodes of Friends and The Simpsons that you hadn’t seen a thousand times before
  48. Phillip Schofield didn’t have grey hair!

Items 45 to 48 are courtesy of me.